ALLAN'S

Narcissist~This is a person who feels he/she has extreme control over others and thinks should be treated extremely better than others.
In my encounter with such people came with a lot of resilient and hardening.At some point, I could burst up juu ya the bothering is much and telling the person the behaviour would feel like you’re against their power.
Narcissism is the self-involvement to the degree that it makes a person ignore the needs of those around them. While everyone may show occasional narcissistic behavior, true narcissists frequently disregard others or their feelings. They also do not understand the effect that their behavior has on others.Actually, narcissistic people disregard other people’s privacy since they want everything done their way.
Narcissism is a trait of which people disregard much, although alot comes from environment people have come from or even the culture.So, I’ve come close to quite a few people who have this behaviour and having gone through this.This people will annoy you as much as possible but what you have to hold is self-control.The mess can be huge if not well relating with them.


People who show signs of narcissism can often be very charming and charismatic. They often don’t show negative behavior right away, especially in relationships. People who show narcissism often like to surround themselves with people who feed into their ego. They build relationships to reinforce their ideas about themselves, even if these relationships are superficial.They think they’re elite in everything they do without considering they might cause low self-esteem to others.My experience was with one of my ex girlfriend,she was this way and with time she would sound toxic and veryy loud.As a man I had to act like I’m the little person since I wouldn’t want damages or either quarrels.

Another case,It was when I was being brought up with my childhood friend’s of which one was narcissistic in each way.Some of this people came as a result they were treated like “kababa,kadaddy” by their parent’s.Thus,when they were out they would belittle others,since they thought they were superior and had financial strength.

However,in some cases narcissism comes in form of mental health thus we should consider checking on this people that’s why we should not be loud to them. That’s because others may see as if they are not loved and may have suicidal thoughts.Always be calm in each and everyway.

CREATE MENTAL HEALTH AWARENESS.

Written by: ALLAN WAKIBIA.